How do I complain on a boy coming to marriage with me without my involvement despite no connection with him though he had an illegal affair?

To add more advantages to a girl with an ex, in case she has a fight with her husband, she can always take revenge by calling up her ex and having sex with him to prove and brag about how much her husband sucks. She has the liberty -- she's an independent modern women with many Exes.

Ignore the fact that her past was with guys whom there was no future with -- these were essentially flings -- temporary attractive BFs who were not marriage material and where WAY over her level. And yes -- they where much more attractive and performed better than her husband, so he doesn't need to worry about his performance; all her fantasies are done in the past. The husband just needs to earn a good amount of money so she her (non-sexual) needs remain satisfied. And you can believe whatever the excuse she makes to prove that her past was not a fling; just 'accidental' relationships. She's a girl with the prefect character after all.

Forget no. of men she had sex with because now (because of the HUGE amount of experience), she doesn't take these things privately; she's more open to the idea of casual sex -- but that doesn't matter. A divorce even matters less because she's open to the idea of changing guys so often; but that's good she's an independent women.

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Then if the girl remembers her ex -- the good old days (oh, he was so good in everything except for things that matter in marriage), she can share it to her husband. He'll TRY to be something like him. Finally he's a substitute; a compromise to her original choice who left her. He can also arrange a meetup (in a hotel room) with her ex to relieve the nostalgia. She'll always be eager.

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Yes, forget her past, ignore it (it’s so old school to remember it). She is a good girl now. She was a bad girl then.

I haven’t eaten junk food for weeks, I ate dirty all-day yesterday, but I can’t even workout, why am I so tired?

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Her husband is a savior. She was rejected by sooo many guys after having 1 night strands or whatever; but now her husband her SO smart to marry her.

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Is love natural, or is it somehow created?

And if the husband did not have any ex before -- he'll be happy to know that while he was struggling with girls, life and carrier, his wife was having flings with guys whom she accepted a relationship over him -- finally her priority was different at that time (big, muscular, interesting guys). Now it's all about salary, stability and being a good boy; therefore we gave the current husband and dining over his hard work. And it's great for the girl! She'll get a guy whome she'll get 100%, while he'll get a girl who is torn apart between her various Exes.

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In these modern time of high quality lifestyle, you don't need to compete at work! You're getting paid enough! The husband's WIFE will give him competition; he will have to compete with her hot, muscular and big sized ex and hope that she's enjoying more than what she used to with him. Surely competition is healthy! She's now making her husband feel MUCH more secure now!

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Then personality wise they suck real time. It’s a wise choice not to give them any attention. Just ignore them. In case you get to lay your hands upon them them use them throw them away like a used condom. This’s what they deserve.

Source: personal life. Observations since school.

Now this byproduct girl is old needs a husband before she reaches 30s; so she’s thrown into the arranged-marriage arena. Where she’ll be married to a IIT/IIM nerdy guy who is neither romantic nor performs good in bed and he only does it for making kids.

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Ignore the fact that the girl cannot live single -- she NEEDS a guy to fill her loneliness and when you're away, she has plenty of exes to call. Very self sufficient girl. She'll never complaint about her loneliness to her husband.

I would not be concerned about complains. But I’ve proof that you are a chootiya if you did not break up with the marriage immediately.

Beautiful girls are loose character.

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The husband is glad that he is (hopefully) the last. Because he is just 1 of her many BF. It's nothing new to her. She has done the same things many times before. Just that her husband is a better provider (and 'fun' was better with her ex).

In case the husband believes she tells him everything; he should also ask about her exes and the things they did in private. Such intimate sharing of feeling and emotions must increase bonds with her husband!!

But the difference from earlier types is that, now a women has like 4 to 5 BFs before getting married. Why they don’t marry their BFs? That’s because the guy dumped her after heavily using her because he was way over her level or he was not marriage material (the girl was just in for a fling) — this includes relationships where the girl/guy are of the same age, have religious/cast incompatibility (which she could’ve figured out before they entered into a relationship, but at that time it didn’t matter because she was just in for a fling). Then she'll sugar quote her past relationship that -- no it was serious, they where in love bla bla bla...

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At that time she was young. She was looking for something different at that time -- good sex, attractive guys, good company. Now that she's old, she's looking at HER HUSBAND. Because now she had enough and he was just not hot enough to handle her youth. Glad he's now with her older version when she's so stable and has a good character.

She's sooo much dedicated to her husband that she didn't think twice about loosing her virginity. Maybe assuming that he'll be ok with her fling with guys who are MUCH more attractive and satisfying than him -- but just earn less, so do not make good husbands but great BFs and flings!

Gone are the good old days when she had a BF with a big penis who satisfied her well and they had a great time together (because he was so 'hot' personal wise and looked so good even though he was poor -- but money was not what she wanted at that time (while you where working hard in college)). Why they don’t marry their BFs? That’s because the guy dumped her after heavily using her because he was way over her level or he was not marriage material (the girl was just in for a fling) — this includes relationships where the girl/guy are of the same age, have religious/cast incompatibility (which she could’ve figured out before they entered into a relationship, but at that time it didn’t matter because she was just in for a fling); then she'll sugar quote her past relationship that -- no it was serious, they where in love bla bla bla...

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

They start having a BF at school and then have 10 to 15 fuck buddies/BF (oh, it’s the same thing, with the same end result) in collage, then get hymenoplasty done to lie and do an arranged marriage with a IIT/IIM virgin guy who lives in an illusion throughout his life.

The job of a husband in India is to provide the 'family' and ensure that the wife has a good time 'financially' (because compared to her hot and handsome but low earning ex, the husband's performance will be negligible). So nowadays what a women needs from her husband is his semen (that too it's not know if it'll be used since 7/10 urban married women cheat) and his salary so she and her child can be taken care off.

But there's just 1 thing her husband should dread about. Meeting her ex, because he can always say on his face that he slept with and she as loud! There goes your self esteem/pride/ego whatever... So he should live rest of his life hoping he never meets her ex or avoiding him.

Why did my ex replace me so fast?

Being a girl is all about relationships and flings -- because it's soo easy and has no consequences (YEAH!!). So sleep with 200 guys and then marry a hardly experienced guy because things are MEANT to be like this.

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Whenever the husband whacks/whacked off porn -- realize that she was doing the same thing that the pron star was doing with her attractive ex. But it was a LOT more intimate. They tried 100 of different poses for hours on end; and she was screaming sooo much out of joy! And she bonded so well with him thereafter. But she's done now and is old. You don't need to perform like that! Just relax; you're just a provider

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